Friendship with Others

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Imagine how your world would be when you have no friends, when the ones you call friends desert you, when your parents and your loved ones leave this life, and you are left alone to toil and fend for yourself. Imagine how stiff, lonely and sad you'd become each time you remember that you have no one to call your own. If you find this hard to do, you can as well engage in this experiment; For a day, take a decision not to speak to or associate with anyone, both in your home, school, work place, etc. Do not even watch the television or listen to the radio. Just distant yourself from anything or anyone that has life... then, you will be able to understand the impact the next person has on you.

It is natural for one to have conflict and misunderstanding with another once in a while. But, when the issue develops to a level or stage that can not be settled, it then becomes a problem. Having clashes with others helps you in some cases to remain sane, and the best part of it is when you truly make up with them. Your relationship with them become stronger. It makes you realize that just like you, others are not perfect. You become comfortable and relaxed when you are around them, because they appreciate you the way you are.

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