RoseFidel

Out of the 90% of people all over the world who make New Years’ resolution(s); 80% of them do not achieve half their resolution(s) by the half of the year, 7% exceed half of the year   and even close to the end of the year, whereas only 3% of them fulfill all their new years’ resolution(s). This fact above which was retrieved from personal observations continues to beg the reason; Why? I have outlined below the Four major reasons why people do not accomplish their new years’ resolution(s); you inclusive. The reasons are as follows:    1.   Too many resolutions: This is a major mistake a lot of people make. They make a list of Dos and Don’ts, forgetting the fact that they cannot be jack of all trade and master of all. New Years’ resolution should be something that you really need to stop.  2.   Lack of Meditation: Meditation is essential in the life of a human being. There should be a time, once in a while when you sit in th...

     Don't stop trying because things are hard for you.       - Ozougwu Ifunanya .R.F

The worst thing that could happen to you is not knowing what you want out of life; another is knowing what you want, but not how to achieve it. Below are 5 ways to be the best of who you are, and also stand out from the rest :   1.   Change your mindset : Why do you always think you are not good enough even when within you, you know you are capable of doing it? The way you think affects your output. If you always think negative thoughts about yourself and people around you, negative things will start happening for you. That’s what you call cause and effect. Think good and positive thoughts. It gives you a new kind of energy to want to do more, to want to be better and prove yourself responsible and worthy. Even when you are faced with difficult situations; it is your mind, your thought that gives you ideas on how to solve them. When you have fixed you mindset on negativity, you cannot achieve anything positive. 2.   Believe in yourself : thi...

The best advice ever is that which you tell yourself in all honesty.                                   -Ifunanya Rosaria Ozougwu.

People of all ages and have greatly shown concern about the issue of “Belonging” or being accepted as a part or member of a particular social or political strata. You may find yourself in a particular environment, but you would not know what to say, what to do, how to react, and so on. This feeling usually makes the question, “How do I Belong?” pop up. Below are 4 practical points on how to solve the problem of acquiring the right attitude or doing the right thing when you are out of your comfort zone. 1.  Take your personal health seriously : Nobody wants to sit close to someone with a smelly mouth or body, let alone, being identified or associated with a dirty person. So, you need to take good care of your body if you want to be appreciated; starting from your hair, eyes, ears, fingers and toe nails. 2.  Dress accordingly: A lot of people take this for granted. You should remember that the way you dress is the way you will be addressed. This is a factor ...

A lot of people give up when things become hard for them without even trying. Sometimes, they feel like there is no more essence for living; that there is no hope. Are you one of those people? There is one thing you should know. Once you are alive, there is still hope to try again. There is no law that says that you must come out successful at first or tenth trial of any task or plan. There is also no law that says you must fail, as long as you have never done it before. Do you know it is a sin against yourself to see yourself as a never do well? Do you know that there is no limit to what you can achieve in life? You are the only one that has a control and hold of your life as long as human race is concerned. You alone can set boundaries for yourself. Only you can set a limit to your achievements yet to be made, not me, not your family, neither is it your friends. One major mistake we make is to always compare ourselves with others. Everyone has a path. You have yours, oth...

If you want to have a better and happy life, then, you should start thinking and living a positive life.           -Ozougwu Ifunanya Rosaria. You can laugh at yourself, you can make a mistake. It is not the end of the world.                        -Oprah Winfrey The challenges you have faced so far plays a great role in preparing you for the future.              -Ozougwu Ifunanya Rosaria.

  God will walk with you when there is no one to walk with you. God will talk with with you when there is no one to talk with you. God will be there for you when everyone deserts you. God will fight for you when you are weak, and there is no one there for you. Even when you go against your words and promises to him, He does not forsake you. God will give you things when no one is willing to give you. God will lend a Helping hand to you when everyone walks away from you. God will Help you see what no man is able to see. God will take you to places where no one has dared to go to. In every trying situation you face, always remember God, and He will do Something tremendous for you. God does not Judge you when everyone else do. God does not condemn you even when you condemn yourself. God does not hate you when you wish or do acts of evil against someone else. God does not leave you whenever you curse Him. Rather in every bad thing you do, he always gives you a Secon...

Everyone deserves a second chance. To avoid having a broken heart, you need to be open minded- believe that anyone is capable of doing anything and anything can happen at anytime. Spend more time on working on your problems than thinking about them.                                                                              - Rose Fidel                                     

Draw nearer to God. Make peace with Him. However, there will come a time in your life when living will become difficult and meaningless. Only His love and touch can make it easier and meaningful. Sometimes, what keeps you going is to take a "Break"; a break from from yourself, and from others. Then, use the break time to figure out ways to improve yourself. Whatever plans you have, tell God about them, and they will turn out successful.  A new chapter in one's life needs a new story. Create yours and live it!                                                                                                        -RoseFidel.