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Learn self dependence

Sometimes, you believe so much in your friends that you think they would never betray you; but once they have two options to choose from, and one favours them the most, they will go for it. The thought that there is someone like you in existence will never cross their minds until they have achieved what they wanted. No one is trust worthy. So, do not depend on anyone for your existence apart from God, because he is the only one that can never disappoint you.

Is this how you view eternity?

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Life is like a race. When you reach the finish line successfully, you get rewarded. But, if you are still on the race, and your time is up, you will be ruled out. All your efforts in preparation, and during the game will be in vain.  Your success in life depends on how hard you have worked, and also on the grace leading you, which is often called 'luck'. It makes no sense living your life like everything on earth depended on you for survival, and when you die, you are kept in the same place with those you cast down.  Everyday you wake is another opportunity given to you to be better. It also means that you are one step closer to judgement. The outcome of this judgment determines where we will live eternally- Heaven or Hell. How do you live your life? How do you treat others? Remember that those you meet on your way up, you shall meet on your way down, and what goes around, comes around. So, always do to others what you would like to be done to you. It is not easy,...

What it takes to be a Beautiful woman

Beauty alone is not what makes one a woman. A woman is a being classified under the female gender. She possess the physical attributes as a female. Some women have been ridiculed, and judged 'ugly' because of one deformity or the other in their body. It is necessary to know that whether man or woman, everyone has both good and bad in them. But, the intensity of either of those two qualities are what should be considered in declaring one good, or bad; as well as beautiful or ugly. A woman should be considered beautiful when; She knows her purpose in life, and does all she can to achieve it without compromising. She does not allow intimidation to shake her. She is humble, kind and reserved. In other words, responsible. She knows when to speak, and what to say. She is confident. She is understanding. She is caring. She is trustworthy. She is a peacemaker. She is dedicated and loyal. She is God fearing. She turns her house into a home. She is accommodating. Basi...

Did you know?

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That many people suffer from Congenital Anosmia; a condition of smell disorder. They are unable to perceive any smell. With your nose closed, you cannot detect the scent of food or drink you are taking. But, once you release your nose, even after consuming the food or drink, the scent comes back to you.

You are your own problem!

The truth is this- we are our own enemies. We want to make tough and responsible decisions about our lives, but we always think...what if? You are hurting, but you do not want to free yourself by taking the right decision. Instead, you prefer to live in the moment. You want to make so many achievements, but you do not want to work for it. You need to know this- You cannot give what you don't have, and nothing is free, even in Freetown. So, if you really want to make it in life, you need to make it happen by working for it, not only wishing it comes true; because, there is no food for a lazy man.

Try This!

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How to start and live a perfect Satur Day Be thankful for the gift of life:  After your prayers, plan your day's activities. Do your chores.    Engage in an exercise : It helps to keep your mind and body sharp and ready for the day's activities. Have a warm bath. Eat healthy : Have a light breakfast Live out your planned activities : While at this, when tired or exhausted, have a little rest, and then, eat healthy. After the day's work, shower. Eat healthy. Be grateful for the day you had : Show appreciation to God for the day gone by, whether it went successful as planned or not; for some did not have the opportunity you had. Then have a sweet night rest.

Just Tell The Truth!!!

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Lying is a vise that seem so light and forgivable, but can cost you everything good you have worked for. It makes your victim to lose trust in you. It could be your friend, lover, spouse, parents, colleague, or any other relation. When this trust is lost, the connection you have built and sustained over the years will be gone. However, we believe that it is better to lie to someone we care about to prevent them from being hurt.But, what about how heart broken they would be when they find out that you lied? A times in the process of lying, we curse and accuse our loved ones falsely. Isn't it better the truth hurts them, yet they would still trust you; than you lie, leave them heart broken and promising never to trust again? Moreover, lying can be overlooked by some people, while it is a turnoff for others. Today, learn to avoid lies, and always tell the truth, no matter how bitter, ugly and discomforting it may seem.

Why you should not Bite your Nails

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Despite the fact that you chew your nails unconsciously, or because you are frustrated, angry, busy, scared, bored, etc... did you know that biting your nails make you a social pariah? Think its not true? Then answer this... How proud would you be to free your hands in public, especially in a way that people can catch a glimpse of your finger nails looking so short, ugly, and terribly eaten? Biting your nails tag you "shady" and "irresponsible".  With time a part of your teeth begins to cut down It paints you as someone who lacks discipline and self control  A part of you is always bitter whenever you look at your short nails It would amaze you to know That many people also chew their toe nails as much as their finger nails. When they feel they have not had enough of the finger nails, they go to that of the toes.   After some time of growing your nails, they look so fine that you begin to imagine them in your mouth...  Biting...

A must know Before you Present

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Ever wanted to make a presentation and you feel you would make a mess of it? The basic things you need to do are as follows; 1.        Be prepared before the D-Day. 2.        Wake up early. 3.        Brush your teeth early: Some people do not react well to rushing in to present as soon as, or few minutes after they have brushed their teeth. It makes them cough, lose their voice, etc. 4.        Drink some water. If possible, eat. 5.        Do some talking or singing: This will help in calming and regulating your nerves and body system.   6.        Be at the venue early (at least 30 minutes before the scheduled time) to get settled. If possible, secure a position you will feel more relaxed. 7.        Believe in yourself. Don’t mind what peo...

Did you know?

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the human brain is regarded as the fattest organ in the human body 75% of the total brain mass is comprised of water which regulates various functions in the brain the human brain consumes the largest portion of the total energy that is generated in the human body that whatever a man thinks about, he becomes... What activities and thoughts consume the most part of your brain? Will they help to keep your brain fit, or damaged? You are free to make any choice you want about how to live your life. Choose wisely!

Music gives hope...

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Music is food to the soul. When angry, it calms you. When sad, it cheers you up. When happy, it lifts your spirit. When dull, it keeps you in the mood.

Victory in emotion management

There is nothing as tricky as emotions. If you are able to manage it, then, you can conquer anything.                                                                                                - Rose Fidel

My family, My pride

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One of the amazing things about Nature and the Family is this- Nature breeds so many things. Some, we consider good. Others, bad. Even when we ignore the good and take the bad back to our homes, the Family helps to curb it. Everyone may deny you, but your family will not. Even when they deny you out of ignorance, they will always take you back. Your family will always be there for you when you need them the most. This family may not be your blood relations. Hence, learn to appreciate the family you have, because, most times, we do not know the value of what we have, until we lose it.

This is why you are ill treated!

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Ever wondered why you are being treated without regard? It is a because of your actions. The attitude you give people, determines how they will react. As a man or woman that knows his or her worth, has principles and abide by them strictly, there is no way you will receive the back seat treatment. If you have not been abiding by this, give it a trial and see t he outcome!